I could dream that Bil was born 30 years after he was.
If he had a mother like this.....an Autism Tiger Mom.
My mother in law did the best she could, under the circumstances of having an autistic son in the 1970's.
So what Bil would have needed is an Autism Tiger Sister in Law.
I am not that person.
But in a small way I am like the Autism Tiger Mom of that op-ed piece. Trying to make it up as I go along. Knowing there may be no good solution. But also trying to live my life, and not spending all my time on Bil.
Just not doing a very good job of the time I do spend on it, I fear. And, right now, feeling guilty.
Oh well, End of self-pity. Tomorrow is another day.