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My theme is - Journeying Through the Unknown. My journey is with an autistic brother-in-law.
Bil dislikes going to the dentist. Strongly dislikes.
In fact, when we moved him up here two years ago to be closer to family,it had been years since his last dental visit. To be blunt about it, his breath stunk. I dreaded riding in the car with him. Bil is totally oblivious to the smell, too - a little surprising, perhaps, given how sensitive his senses are.
Yes, he brushes his teeth, although not as much as he should have good dental hygiene.
We've been through this before. It took quite a bit of effort to get him to the dentist last time, and his mother, who is going on 90, has had so many health concerns in the past three/four years, that her needs always seemed to get addressed first.
My husband is now Bil's guardian. There is another brother living about 20 minutes from us. All of us knew this hygiene situation couldn't be allowed to continue, but we couldn't figure out how to get him to the dentist.
Fortunately, fate intervened.
Going to the medical doctor with his mother has always been part of his routine and he's accepted having a primary care doctor. On a visit last year, we were told their doctor had left the practice.
There was a new doctor, and on her first exam, she mentioned Bil's breath, and the fact it could indicate something was wrong in his mouth.
Lo and behold, suddenly Bil wanted to go to go see a dentist. His anxiety (an issue with him) had kicked in.
I called our dentist's office and they were willing to see Bil - in fact, if the visit was not successful (i.e. Bil didn't cooperate enough to be examined) they said they wouldn't charge. This was important, as our dentist does not accept Medicaid. Almost no dentists in our area do. Bil would have to pay totally out of pocket.
So off my husband and Bil went.
This is the waiting room of our dentist.
They had to spread the needed cleaning over several visits, but, fortunately, there was no major work needed other than the cleaning.
Now, his breath smells so much better.
He will go back later this month for a checkup, and he is not being oppositional about it. But now there is another plot complication - the hygienist who did the previous work won't be there that day. My husband talked to Bil about it, giving him the choice of moving the appointment or not. He decided he wanted to keep the appointment as is.
It's a milestone. Bil has gone to the dentist. Whether they can teach him to maintain dental health, and whether he will change his habits, is another matter.
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